It started with a Christmas party that changed everything. What I thought was anxiety turned out to be my first autistic shutdown; the moment that led me to discover I’m AuDHD. This is my story of late diagnosis, self-discovery, and learning that being different isn’t something to fix; it’s something to understand, accept, and advocate for.

After years of pushing through exhaustion, I hit burnout and had to relearn how to move my body with care instead of punishment. This is the story of how I rested my way back to strength, found joy in tiny steps, and rebuilt a sustainable, guilt-free relationship with exercise.

As a neurodivergent personal trainer based in Wolverhampton, I know firsthand how overwhelming bright lights, loud music, unclear instructions, and social expectations can be. Fitness should be a path to wellbeing, not another place you have to mask or struggle to fit in.

Fitness isn’t about being perfect — it’s about finding what actually feels right for your brain and body. If the gym has ever felt overwhelming or “not made for you,” this blog breaks down a kinder, more neurodivergent-friendly way to approach movement.

Traditional gyms often fail neurodivergent people. But with a sensory-safe, flexible approach, fitness can finally feel doable. You don’t need confidence, perfect routines, or “discipline” to start. You just need a space that understands your brain and supports your body.